This paper focuses on the men suffering from himote that means sexual frustrations such as not having a girlfriend to consider clinical sociologically life experiences of marginalized men. The analysis of their interviews in a group talk show the following. They think that they are inferior to and alienated in the surrounding people. They are abused in their work place and school. In such a situation, they worship the woman who take kindly to them, and think that they can recover from this

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... tunate situation by going about her. They make their moves on women, but not considering her feelings. They hold self-abnegation because they repeat stalking acts such as hankering after women and are refused by them. From the above-mentioned analysis, this paper reveals that the suffering they hold is a series of processes that feeling in inferior and a sense of estrangement through damaged experiences, and deeply attaching to a woman, strongly denying themselves from a sense of guilt of their act and failure of being refused by her.