<p><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-bidi; color: black; mso-ansi-language: IN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;">This article aims to the discourse of sexuality and power in assessing the<span> relationship between husband and wife sexuality that is often

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... considered lame.<span> The study of this article uses a type of socio-legal research by combining a<span> conceptual approach in normative legal science and discourse analysis in the<span> social-humanities sciences. In the perspective of the fiqh of sexuality, the<span> coercion or sexual violence of the husband that befell his wife, limited as a sexual<span> object, is actually an anti-monotheistic act. The relationship between husband and<span> wife should be as a partner, as clothing (libas) which mutually bandage in<span> channeling sexual desire, and give each other peace. There should be equality of<span> husband and wife sexual relations based on willingness and agreement of both<span> parties and affectionate with good treatment among others (mu'asyarah bi alma'ruf).</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%; font-family: 'Times New Roman',serif; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-bidi; mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-bidi; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-bidi; color: black; mso-ansi-language: IN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;"><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span><span>Artikel ini mengkaji wacana seksualitas dan kuasa dalam menilai relasi<span> seksualitas suami-istri yang sering kali dianggap timpang. Kajian artikel ini<span> menggunakan jenis penelitian sosio-legal dengan memadukan pendekatan<span> konseptual (conceptual approach) dalam ilmu hukum normatif dan analisis<span> wacana (discourse analysis) dalam ilmu sosial-humaniora. Dalam perspektif<span> fikih seksualitas, pemaksaan atau kekerasan seksual suami (marrital rape) yang<span> menimpa istri, sebatas sebagai objek seksual, sejatinya merupakan tindakan antitauhid. Hubungan antara suami dengan istri seharusnya adalah sebagai partner,<span> sebagai pakaian (libas) yang saling membalut dalam menyalurkan hasrat<span> seksualnya, maupun saling memberi ketenangan. Harus ada kesetaraan relasi<span> seksualitas suami-istri berdasarkan kerelaan dan kesepakatan kedua pihak dan<span> penuh kasih sayang disertai perlakuan baik antar sesama (<span><span style="mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ascii-theme-font: major-bidi; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-theme-font: major-bidi; mso-bidi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-theme-font: major-bidi;">mu'asyarah bi al<span>ma'ruf</span></span>).</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></p>ne"&gt; <span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;">This article aims to the discourse of sexuality and power in assessing the<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> relationship between husband and wife sexuality that is often considered lame.<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> The study of this article uses a type of socio-legal research by combining a<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> conceptual approach in normative legal science and discourse analysis in the<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> social-humanities sciences. In the perspective of the fiqh of sexuality, the<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> coercion or sexual violence of the husband that befell his wife, limited as a sexual<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> object, is actually an anti-monotheistic act. The relationship between husband and<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> wife should be as a partner, as clothing (libas) which mutually bandage in<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> channeling sexual desire, and give each other peace. There should be equality of<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> husband and wife sexual relations based on willingness and agreement of both<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> parties and affectionate with good treatment among others (mu'asyarah bi alma'ruf).<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> Artikel ini mengkaji wacana seksualitas dan kuasa dalam menilai relasi<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> seksualitas suami-istri yang sering kali dianggap timpang. Kajian artikel ini<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> menggunakan jenis penelitian sosio-legal dengan memadukan pendekatan<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> konseptual (conceptual approach) dalam ilmu hukum normatif dan analisis<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> wacana (discourse analysis) dalam ilmu sosial-humaniora. Dalam perspektif<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> fikih seksualitas, pemaksaan atau kekerasan seksual suami (marrital rape) yang<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> menimpa istri, sebatas sebagai objek seksual, sejatinya merupakan tindakan antitauhid. Hubungan antara suami dengan istri seharusnya adalah sebagai partner,<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> sebagai pakaian (libas) yang saling membalut dalam menyalurkan hasrat<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> seksualnya, maupun saling memberi ketenangan. Harus ada kesetaraan relasi<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> seksualitas suami-istri berdasarkan kerelaan dan kesepakatan kedua pihak dan<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;"> penuh kasih sayang disertai perlakuan baik antar sesama (<span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPS-ItalicMT; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;">mu'asyarah bi al<span style="font-family: TimesNewRomanPS-ItalicMT; font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;">ma'ruf<span style="font-size: 12pt; color: #000000; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal;">).<br style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: normal; orphans: 2; text-align: -webkit-auto; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: 2; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;" /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span>